17 girl dating 15 guy

10-Mar-2019 19:23

Being the older, wiser man is a power trip for him.

And that's all about , the said power trip he is getting off on should be overt.

And that means I can date a woman who is 16." From where did this ridiculous rule come?

You can date someone as young as half your age plus seven years? It's no wonder that so many women feel that men their own age are too immature.

What about if your 10-year-old looks at you and says, "I'm ready to date, Dad"? There is so much a 12-year-old can teach a 10-year-old -- advanced coloring, advanced texting, and so many other important life skills. You're 20 years old and, under this rule, you can date a 17-year-old. There you are in college, and you get to go back to high school again to find a girlfriend.

The new found love that your daughter has found is fantastically powerful and she is overwhelmed with feelings in so much that nothing else truly matters.

It's like a drug and despite parents, friends, or even common sense whispering behind the scenes 'don't do this'.

She continues because the feelings she has are too strong. But I would be careful in how you deliver your feelings. Outline your concerns but let your daughter know you love and support her and that it is only natural for you to be worried.

Recognize the powerful grip the 25 yr old has and that is normal. I would try and create a containment bubble around a situation you have limited control over but in reality you do have a way to contain the situation. Reinforce her education about the risks of getting pregnant and maybe set some soft rules like 'education comes first' Maybe she is in sixth form. It could be that the relationship is successful but if something goes wrong be sure she knows you are there for her if things collapse.

What about if your 10-year-old looks at you and says, "I'm ready to date, Dad"? There is so much a 12-year-old can teach a 10-year-old -- advanced coloring, advanced texting, and so many other important life skills. You're 20 years old and, under this rule, you can date a 17-year-old. There you are in college, and you get to go back to high school again to find a girlfriend.The new found love that your daughter has found is fantastically powerful and she is overwhelmed with feelings in so much that nothing else truly matters.It's like a drug and despite parents, friends, or even common sense whispering behind the scenes 'don't do this'.She continues because the feelings she has are too strong. But I would be careful in how you deliver your feelings. Outline your concerns but let your daughter know you love and support her and that it is only natural for you to be worried.Recognize the powerful grip the 25 yr old has and that is normal. I would try and create a containment bubble around a situation you have limited control over but in reality you do have a way to contain the situation. Reinforce her education about the risks of getting pregnant and maybe set some soft rules like 'education comes first' Maybe she is in sixth form. It could be that the relationship is successful but if something goes wrong be sure she knows you are there for her if things collapse.Since you are 18 years old, you are allowed to date a woman half your age plus seven." Son looked at him and said, "Alright, Dad.